The truth is, weight loss
is really about self-esteem. Some emotional change has to happen if you're going to be successful long
term. Don't think, 'I just have to change my diet and exercise habits, and then the work is over.' It's not.
If you simply diet and exercise without making a mental breakthrough, you're just going to be in a vicious circle. I've
never seen a person succeed in the long term who didn't first make a core change in the way they felt about themselves.
But what sort of revelation is required before you can finally conquer the weight that's plagued
you? The number one thing you need to understand is this - you are worthy of a better life.
To change, you've got to feel these three words: 'I deserve this.' You're not going to get anywhere,
long term, until you say to yourself, “Hey, I'm not a bad person, and I really do deserve this.' The people
who succeed at losing weight and keeping it off have said to themselves, “I am worthy of whatever I am seeking.”
Of course, even the most committed and self-aware person has days when the treadmill seems too daunting
or the brownies are too irresistible. What can change, is the way you view your bad days.
Setbacks
are going to happen. But what will make the difference is if you can see that those moments are really
opportunities - opportunities to reaffirm your self-esteem. Yes, you fell off the wagon. Big deal. That doesn't mean you've
blown it.
A setback is an opportunity
to learn and say, “I can overcome this.” This is your chance to create the life and body you deserve. Every
day of your life, when you wake up, you have a choice: Am I going to build on the positive momentum, or am I going to let
negativity take over? Success comes when you say, 'I might mess up, but I'm going to start again and keep going.'"
Some habits die hard, however, and when you've spent a lifetime thinking of Twinkies as the
ultimate reward for a hard day's work or a job well done, it can be difficult to retrain your brain into believing a walk
in the park is just as satisfying.
People often feel they reward themselves with food. But I think
they're using the wrong word. You aren't rewarding yourself with food - you're comforting yourself
with it. Really, we're all hungry emotionally. And food is so readily available that it's the easiest source of comfort.
Breaking free of it is no different from breaking free of any other kind of drug. You have to address it openly. You have
to ask yourself, 'Why am I using food as a crutch? What are the areas in my life that are disappointing me right now?'
You're comforting yourself, for the most part, because you're not getting what you really need."
The answer is looking at every area of your life and making it more fulfilling so that food is not your only comfort.
That's what the Emotional Diet is all about. You will learn how to create more joy and passion in your life and
how to turn off the triggers that drive you to eat.
Imagine how great it would be to pass
up those unhealthy foods without a second thought. Think how great it would be to be free of your limiting beliefs and
create the life and body of your dreams. You can break free from emotional eating.
To learn more about the Emotional Diet, click on this link.